Boys

Topic pick: Boys, Boys, Boys (we love them, we love them!) Get the song reference?...no? I'm slightly disappointed... ANYWAYS onto the most helpful topic ever. I'm a chick as you all probably know so this will be a praise/rant thing. Guys, read this; it'll help you with so much in the chick world. I'm a straight chick so far that I know of (read Homosexuality), but sometimes I'd rather punch every guy who talks to me. Guys are predictable and generally sweet. But even that can get generally annoying. If you're going to compliment a girl, do it once a week at most. If you say something everyday then they start to lose their power. Don't overdo it or else your girlfriend/boyfriend will get annoyed and not believe that they're genuine. I'll also admit I love the guy who has my back, but if you say "I love you", "If you need anything, I'm here", and so on. Those type of phrases are like compliments. ONLY DO THEM ONCE IN A WHILE!!!! Take that seriously, bro. If you don't then I feel suffocated. Me don't do mushy, but that's my preference. Those phrases are nice to hear once in a while, but I'm serious about the suffocation thing. Instead of making your person want to head towards you, you push them away. I've seen it happen many times, it can cause some ugly break ups, especially because the person comes off looking like the bad person while you look stalkerish. Not a very good look which destroys any chance of ever getting back together. "Weeeeee're never ever eveeeeeerrrrr...getting back together!" The above tips were about getting clingy! But don't drift off too much. It's nice to find that perfect balance between you time and together time. If you drift off then that relationship won't get any deeper or more real. Find the balance, Yin and Yang (found out the yang is pronounced like yong, who knew?). I have an awful habit of drifting away when people start saying "I love you." I'm not mushy so I feel weird, but what do I respond with? "Love ya." It's really informal. When I actually mean I love you, then I'll say it right. The informal thing is me saying, " I like you, but we've only been dating for about a month so it won't form until I get used to you being my boyfriend." No relationship has even won those words from me or my first kiss. I'm in the later teen range, but I haven't kissed anyone. Me kissing you is saying that I freaking love you. Only one guy has been able to get me to nearly kiss him, but the relationship took to a road towards friendship so that didn't happen. Everyone can say, "I love the kissing, cuddling, and making out." but that's not me. I'm happy for my friends, especially Jordan L + Rae Rae and Jordan B + Seth. They're such cute couples who seem perfect for each other. They balance everything while getting to know each other. That's the kind of the relationship I want. I want to know the person truly before getting into the hot and heavy stuff. Almost every single guy friend I've ever had has formed some crush on me, but it's infatuation. They ask me out, I say yes, and they find out that they don't get along with me. I like a little fight in a guy, he's got to know when to back down and when to butt heads with me. I test the relationships and I can tell right off when someone won't get along well with me. Tell me what you like about your person, hate, or whatever (NO INAPPROPRIATE STUFF! If I haven't had my first kiss then I obviously haven't done any of that stuff.) Ask me any relationships questions! I actually do give out nice advice. See you, my darlings! *blows kisses goodbye*